Steven Mays

A collection of 5 posts

Raising Children Before Memory

Raising Children Before Memory

Right now, my daughters won’t remember any of these early years—their first steps, first words, the little moments we share each day. But this time is still critical. This is when their Self is formed, and each interaction is helping shape that inner voice they’ll carry through life.

Goals Are For Losers

Most successful people do not set goals, they establish systems. Example goal: Lose 10 pounds Example system: Work out 4 days per week Notice that the example system looks a lot like a goal? Systems generally have an implicit goal,

Why Financial Independence?

When I was a kid I was always hustling together some little scheme to make money - some of them skirted the edges of legality. One of my most profitable operations was running a loan sharking operation where I used